When the Spirit Makes a Motion
by Jack A. McKenzie, National Vice President

The agenda for Phoenix includes a number of critically significant proposals about which Brothers have strongly held differences of opinion. There are sure to be many spirited debates as these proposals work their way through the legislative process. It is every participant's responsibility to ensure that these debates remain respectful, civil and Brotherly in nature, tone and content.

Here are some tips that will help:

• Keep in mind that the Brothers on the other side of a particular issue want the best for the Fraternity just as you do. Obviously they have a different opinion about what "best" is, but their desire and intent are no less valid than yours. Focus your attention and comments on the issue, not on each other.
• Keep your language, your emotions and your volume in check. You'll do more harm than good for your side if you don't - plus you'll be ruled out of order and won't be allowed to continue to participate in the discussion. Don't confuse being right with being crude, passionate or loud.

• Truly keep in mind what is best for the Fraternity as a whole. Each of us tends to define the Fraternity locally, as an extension of our own individual chapter, experiences and beliefs. In reality, though, Alpha Phi Omega is much larger, much more complex, and much more dynamic than that. Each of us has the right to argue for the way we think the Fraternity should be, but we also have an obligation to accept - even if we don't agree with - what the Fraternity collectively chooses to be the right course for its future.

"APO has a long and proud tradition of tolerance and goodwill."